The Thing About Boys

I have to wonder if it’s just the Jamaican male that behaves like this?

  • They want to skip the friendship stage and be in an intimate relationship.
  • Sex becomes a main topic at the beginning or soon after becoming friends.
  • They are persistent in the sex quest.
  • You end up blocking them & deleting their number.

This topic of course came up in a conversation with Lexxi (click KultureShocked to see her post about this) and I had to express this, I turn away most men because of a vibe they give off. If  the vibe is right I give them a chance, call it a grace period, and most f**k it up.

They make me feel like all guys want to do is have sex. What about other stuff? Intellectual stuff, fun stuff? It is quite annoying frankly.

The male species seriously needs to understand, they ruin their chances from the get go by bringing up sexual activities too early in a friendship. Friendship. Not even a relationship as yet. They are more likely to get sex if they start from the bottom, have normal conversations about normal everyday things, maybe go out, and maybe make out, yea, but when you want sex too early it is upsetting.

Don’t get me wrong there are decent men out there, who can actually court a woman, they just live in my purple mansion in my head and all happen to be my man servants, I’m sorry I will not be unleashing them into the world.

Every female has a vagina, so if that’s what he wants he can go find it elsewhere, that’s my philosophy with guys. My male friend says that a man is gonna want sex, and I have no problem with that but I find it offensive when I don’t know your middle name but you want to do the naughty with me. It feels like you want me for just that, trust me that ain’t  happening; if for some reason I look easy, you going learn today.


 

First rant post lol, sigh males. What about men irk you?

xShida

24 thoughts on “The Thing About Boys

  1. Yea…it because of this ‘fuck-everything-that-walks-on-two-legs’ gene that we seem to have…atleast,some of us. Sad,but true…pardon my french

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  2. And a slight issue,its a bit too biased to ascribe these things to ‘Di jamaikan man’..its a truth,universally acknowledged,about all men. Yes,you can ask Jane Austen.

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    1. That’s the men I’m use to lol so that’s the way I had to put it, wow though I have one confirmation, it’s not just as it seems, its’s basically a gene 😛 I’m just living trying to find one that fit my criteriors, it’s a long journey but eh, thanks for the comment 🙂

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  3. Its not really a ‘confirmation’..its more so like an acknowledgement of the animalistic nature inside,to want to mate…yea,that kinda sounds like something off of Discovery channel.but your right,some might appear a little too superficial with our intentions. And your welcome.

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  4. Omgawd yes! I thought it was just me being weird or sending out the wrong message! It’s ridiculous how we … I don’t know… I think its instinct? When you just know someone just wants something from you. So my stupidest mistake was not trusting myself to believe in my instincts.

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    1. That was me before, I gave a lot of chances but I’m seeing the same thing repeat so now if i give them a chance I’m watching to see what they’re really like & if I don’t like it I’ll cut them off so quick lol

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      1. You should, I wouldn’t stop you from doing it if I was one of your close mates. (Currently in London and all the guys act the same) It all has pretty much put me off because I feel like everyone is only interested for my appearance and what they want in the end. Lol as if I’ll give them that.

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      2. Haha once this guy who I haven’t had a long conversation with before was made at me because we had planned to speak the next day and I forgot so he talks to me at 3pm that day and tells me im a slut that should kill myself and do him a favour! I had never laughed so hard! It was a totally serious situation but come on, the ignorance he should made it funny in the worst way

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      3. I don’t understand the rush… I’m not exactly old fashioned but I want that best friend that I’ll fall in love with. I just think theres something so special in marrying your best friend :’) sounds so cheesy

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      4. Lool I get you 🙂 it doesn’t have to be best friend for me but I want to get to know the person well enough before getting into a relationship, hang out, go out (not necessarily a date) when you have things in common we can just chill & then relationship can follow

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      5. Nothing sounds better to be honest xD I think you’ll find that guy one day and I bet he’ll appreciate you.
        I tend to doubt that I’ll ever actually love a guy or marry because I expect that they’ll get bored of me or vice versa

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